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What is Nouthetic Counseling?
Nouthetic Counseling is Not New
While the name is new, the sort of counseling done by nouthetic counselors
is not. From biblical times onward, God's people have counseled nouthetically.
The word itself is biblical. The New Testament was written in Greek,
from which the noun nouthesia (verb: noutheteo) comes. It is a term
used largely by the apostle Paul which is sometimes translated "admonish,
correct or instruct." The term, which best describes biblical counseling,
occurs in such passages a Romans 15:14: "I myself am convinced about
you, my brothers, that you yourselves are full of goodness, filled
with all knowledge, and competent to counsel one another." In that
passage, the apostle was encouraging members of the Roman church to
do informal, mutual counseling, something that all Christians today
should learn, as well. On the other hand, the leaders of a congregation
are to counsel nouthetically in a formal manner as a part of their
ministry: "Now we ask you, brothers, to recognize those who labor
among you, and manage you in the Lord, and counsel you."
Nouthetic Counseling Embraces Three Ideas
Because the New Testament term is larger than the English word "counsel,"
and because it doesn't carry any of the "freight" that is attached
to the latter term, we have simply imported the biblical term into
English. In that way, the full force of the biblical concept of counseling
may be set forth while avoiding the many contradictory connotations
surrounding the English one. The three ideas found in the word nouthesia
are Confrontation, Concern and Change. To put it simply, nouthetic
counseling consists of lovingly confronting people out of deep concern
in order to help them make those changes that God requires.
By confrontation we mean that one Christian personally gives counsel
to another from the Scriptures. He does not confront him with his
own ideas or the ideas of others. He limits his counsel strictly to
that which may be found in the Bible, believing that "All Scripture
is breathed out by God and useful for teaching, for conviction, for
correction and for disciplined training in righteousness in order
to fit and fully equip the man from God for every good task." (2 Timothy
3:16,17) The nouthetic counselor believes that all that is needed
to help another person love God and his neighbor as he should, as
the verse above indicates, may be found in the Bible.
By concern we mean that counseling is always done for the benefit
of the counselee. His welfare is always in view in biblical counselling.
The apostle Paul put it this way: "I am not writing these things to
shame you, but to counsel you as my dear children." (1 Corinthians
4:14) Plainly, the familial nature of the word noutheteo appears in
this verse. There is always a warm, family note to biblical counseling
which is done among the saints of God who seek to help one another
become more like Christ. Christians consider their counseling to be
a part of the sanctification process whereby one Christian helps another
get thorugh some difficulty that is hindering him from moving forward
in his spiritual growth.
By change we mean that counseling is done because there is something
in another Christian's life that fails to meet the biblical requirements
and that, therefore, keeps him from honoring God. All counseling --
biblical or otherwise-- attempts change. Only biblical counselors
know what a counselee should become as the result of counseling: he
should look more like Christ. He is the Standard. Biblical counseling
is done by Christians who are convinced that God is able to make the
changes that are necessary as His Word is ministered in the power
of the Spirit. It is their hope to help every interested church develop
a nouthetic counseling program that will be a blessing to all of the
members of that congregation. The importance of such counseling in
churches is underscored by the words of Paul as he described his ministry
in Ephesus: "Therefore, be alert, remembering that for three years,
night and day, I didn't stop counseling each one of you with tears."
(Acts 20:31) The regularity and intense nature of Paul's counsel during
his three-year ministry at Ephesus is emphasized by these words. If
Paul found it necessary to counsel nouthetically for that entire period,
as he said, surely our churches need it, too.
How may one learn to counsel nouthetically? There are books and training
programs all over the country. Moreover, there is an accrediting organization.
The National Association of Nouthetic Counselors, which has produced
this pamphlet, can give you more information and help.
-- By Dr. Jay Adams
-The CAMMA Executive Council
For further information or comments, email camma@arminc.org.
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